I believe speaking with the gf is an error.

Katie 17, 2012, 9:42 am july

We agree with you… i dunno. Its difficult. I simply know personally i couldnt just let the lady glare at me personally for no reason… like, sorry woman, be angry at him. I’ve done absolutely nothing to you. But thats simply anyone I will be.

Like i stated, i wouldnt walk out my method to you will need to keep in touch with her, but if she sets the record right utilizing the girlfriend, ideally she’s going to turn her focus through the LW being a concern towards the man being the matter, which can be what’s going on.

Katie 17, 2012, 9:50 am july

And in addition, just exactly what would you want to bet they talk all the time that he is feeding his new girlfriend the whole “crazy ex” routine to explain why? And was operating into one another really and truly just a coincidence?

Nadine July 17, 2012, 9:52 am

I am able to realise why you’ll believe that means, it isnt nice never to be liked, but We browse the page as being in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, perhaps perhaps perhaps not the ex-BF relationship that is current. Thats simply a complicator. The LW can simply get a handle on her very own actions, and overlook the ex-BF calling and annoying that is being. New GF to his relationship is none of her company, and honestly, the 2 girls don’t need to be buddies at all. It can you should be an additional url to the man when it comes to LW, that is wanting to cut ties that are emotional.

Katie 17, 2012, 9:54 am july

Thats an excellent point for sure!

Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am

Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I familiar with be buddies with this particular number of guys whom accustomed have such lady-issues, and all sorts of the girls they dated would get crazy on it after a few weeks and I’d get actually astonished, cos they seemed therefore normal if you ask me? Then we realised it ended up beingn’t the girls, its the people. While the girls had been all simply normal those who, you understand, desired to know if that they had a boyfriend or not…….

Katie 17, 2012, 10:04 am july

Yea. Its love, when that takes place enough times- what’s the typical denominator? YOU WILL BE!!

I do feel detrimental to this new GF. She deserves to possess a guy’s attention that is full. And she deserves a man who isnt hung through to their ex, calling her and telling her which he nevertheless dreams intensely about her and material. Thats messed up! And she most likely hates the LW due to the fact man is telling her a couple of crap about her. Its simply all incorrect. The whole thing.

Nadine 17, 2012, 10:09 am july

I’m bad she needs to look out for herself for her too, but. Its difficult being the girlfriend that is first a long relationship, but thats really why a lot of people go into these with their eyes available. Oh and the man has to prevent dropping “But We have a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. We keep imagining him carrying it out the real method the crossdresser does it in minimal Britain, maybe you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”

Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:25 am

Yeah that “but I have girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW knows he is just looking for a reaction everytime he says it that he has a GF. He wishes the LW become like “well I don’t care I will still blow you” or “Dump that skank, and come back to me” if you have a GF,

Katie July 17, 2012, 10:27 am

Yea, its like whenever i was in senior high school and me and my boyfriend would split up any other week, and then he would “accidently” text me personally or something like that just therefore we would fight and acquire right back together.

Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 2:45 pm july

@katie, hahaha “just so we would fight and acquire straight back together”

Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 10:05 am

I’ve said right here a whole lot , if the man whips out of the word that is“crazy operate one other method. I’m sure therefore men that are many utilize that word to hide because of their dickish behavior.

Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am

We don’t understand why individuals would call somebody crazy within the beginning. I simply say we didn’t see eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The very fact which you place a “crazy” label onto it, makes me think you may well be the one which loves to stir the muck.

Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am

Additionally, you could be kinda crazy as well if you are willing to call someone crazy, wouldn’t that mean?

Rilooyah July 17, 2012, 4:44 pm

Therefore real! When the” that is“crazy away, Im operating one other method. I do believe it absolutely was said above- once you attract the crazy, the denominator that is common always YOU, friend.

Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:21 am

The truth is, that its partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he could be in this relationship, and she’s knows that when this occurred to her she most likely will be upset about this too, and yet she continues to answer this dudes calls and even though he keeps stating that he could be dreaming about her, and all sorts of of this bull shit.

Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 10:26 am july

Yep! We completely agree. LW, simply stop responding to. Don’t talk to the woman since your simply planning to cause drama. You must just understand he’s maybe maybe not your boyfriend as well as if you nevertheless like his attention, the fact you understand he’s a gf is making you a bad man in this too.

Katie July 17, 2012, 10:35 am

That is a point that is great you dudes. I didnt think about it like this.

So LW, if you actually do respect their relationship and wish them happyness, keep them alone!! Like eljay (everyone loves you, eljay) said, some body has got to function as adult in this case. You have to do it if he is not willing to be.

Painted_lady 17, 2012, 2:17 pm july

Amen bestie – we trust you about talking towards the gf. That knows exactly just just what this guy has stated concerning the LW to justify their speaking many times, but although the relationship is none of the company, the truth that the LW plus the girlfriend that is new met now i believe permits the LW some freedom. If I experienced experienced a predicament where a pal brought some body around that I’d found out about and wished to be friends with (I’m planning to assume that the LW wishes that? ) and it went horribly, i may touch base and get, hey, I’m therefore sorry that went defectively. She does not fundamentally need to state, “Hey, which means that your boyfriend happens to be saying _____ in my opinion and he’s the main one calling, and then he explained you had been ok with this particular, ” just “Hey, I’m therefore sorry that went poorly, I became underneath the impression you had been ok with this being buddies, but i simply noticed I’m maybe not ok with your being friends either, so that it’s no problem anymore. ”

Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 9:37 am

I’dn’t keep in touch with the gf concerning this. I would want is their ex of 3 years reaching out to me if I were dating someone for two months the last thing. And merely to inform you which you respect her relationship? I’d think you’re bullshitting me personally and head that is playing. Simply simply just Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex lover you don’t desire to hear them alone from him for a while, and then leave. Actually they probably won’t work-out them work that out themselves because you are still in the picture (which doesn’t do great things for a new relationship), but let.

Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:39 am july

Oh in addition, that we leave immediately if I were the new girlfriend and my bf and I ran into his ex at a bar I would also demand. It is therefore uncomfortable. Every person pretends they can be” that is“mature stay buddies with exes and stay completely okay if your SO’s ex turns up, but why? You don’t have actually become okay with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of 36 months.

Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:28 am